Saatnya Untuk Menikah ^_~

"Apabila datang kepadamu seorang laki-laki datang untuk meminang yang engkau redha terhadap agama dan akhlaqnya maka nikahkanlah dia. Bila tidak engkau lakukan maka akan terjadi fitnah di muka bumi dan akan timbul kerusakan yang merata di muka bumi." - HR Tarmidzi dan Ahmad

Saya tidak tahu apakah ini merupakan Hukum Sejarah yang digariskan allah

Ketika orang mempersulit apa yang dimudahkan Allah, mereka akhirnya benar-benar mendapati keadaan yang sulit dan nyaris tak menemukan jalan keluarnya.

Mereka menunda-nunda pernikahan tanpa ada alasan Syar'ie dan akhirnya mereka benar-benar takut melangkah di saat hati sudah sangat menginginkannya.

Atau ada yang sudah benar-benar gelisah tak kunjung ada yang mahu serius.

Lingkaran Ketakutan Berlanjutan

Bila di usia dua puluh tahunan mereka menunda pernikahan karena takut dengan ekonominya yang belum mapan, di usia menjelang tiga puluh hingga tiga puluh lima berubah lagi masalahnya.

Laki-laki mengalami Sindrom Kemapanan (meski wanita juga banyak yang demikian, terutama mendekati usia 30).

Mereka (laki-laki) menginginkan pendamping dengan kriteria yang sulit dipenuhi.

Seperti Hukum Kategori, semakin banyak kriteria semakin sedikit yang masuk kategori.

Begitu pula Kriteria Tentang Jodoh, ketika menetapkan kriteria yang terlalu banyak maka akhirnya tidak ada yang sesuai dengan keinginan kita.

Sementara wanita yang sudah berusia sekitar 35 tahun, masalahnya bukan kriteria tetapi soal apakah ada orang yang mau menikah dengannya?

Ketika usia sudah 40-an, ketakutan kaum laki-laki sudah berbeza lagi, kecuali bagi mereka yang tetap terjaga hatinya.

Jika sebelumnya banyak kriteria yang dipasang pada usia 40-an muncul ketakutan apakah dapat mendampingi isteri dengan baik.

Lebih-lebih lagi ketika usia beranjak 50 tahun, ada ketakutan lain yang mencekam.

Iaitu kekhawatiran ketidakmampuan mencari nafkah sementara anak masih kecil.

Atau ketika masalah nafkah tak merisaukan khawatir kematian lebih dahulu menjemput sementara anak-anak masih banyak perlu dinasihati.

Bila Iman Tiada Makan Muncul Putus Asa

Jangan ditunda-tunda apa yang menghimpit saudara kita sehingga mereka sanggup menitiskan air mata.

Awalnya adalah kerana mereka menunda apa yang harus disegerakan, mempersulit apa yang seharusnya dimudahkan. Padahal Rasulullah s.a.w. berpesan:

Wahai Ali, ada Tiga perkara jangan ditunda-tunda; apabila Solat telah tiba waktunya, Jenazah apabila telah siap penguburannya, dan Perempuan apabila telah datang laki-laki yang sepadan meminangnya." - HR Ahmad

Hadis ini menujukkan agar tidak boleh mempersulit pernikahan baik langsung mahupun tak langsung.

Secara 'lansung' adalah menuntut mahar yang terlalu tinggi. Atau yang sejenis dengan itu. Ada lagi yang 'tidak secara langsung'.

Mereka membuat kebiasaan yang mempersulit, meski nyata-nyata menuntut mahar yang tinggi atau resepsi yang mewah.

Sebahagian orang mengadakan acara peminangan sebagai acara tersendiri yang tidak boleh kalah mewah dari resepsi pernikahan sebahagian lainnya melazimkan acara penyerahan hadiah atau wang belanja untuk biaya pernikahan secara tersendiri.

Bila seseorang tak kuat menahan beban, maka bisa saja melakukan penundaan pernikahan semata-mata hanya kerana masalah ini.

Saya sangat khawatir akan keruhnya niat dan bergesernya tujuan, sehingga pernikahan itu kehilangan barokahnya.

Naudzubillah! Penyebab lain adalah lemahnya keyakinan kita bahwa Allah pasti akan memberi rezeki atau boleh jadi cerminan dari sifat tidak qona'ah (mencukupkan diri dengan yang ada).

Pilihlah Yang Bertaqwa

Suatu saat ada yang datang menemui Al Hasan (cucu Rasulullah). Ia ingin bertanya sebaiknya dengan siapa putrinya menikah? Maka Al Hasan r.a berkata:

"Kawinkanlah dia dengan orang yang bertakwa kepada Allah. Ini kerana, jika laki-laki mencintainya, ia memuliakannya, dan jika ia tidak menyenanginya, ia tidak akan berbuat zalim kepadanya."

Nasihat Al- Hasan menuntun kita untuk menjernihkan fikiran. Jika kita menikah dengan orang yang bertakwa, cinta yang semula tiada meski cuma benihnya, dapat bersemi indah karena komitmen yang memenuhi jiwa.

Wallahu alam bi showwab.

Sumber Rujukan: Seminar Keluarga Sakinah, 16 Ogos 2002 (Keluarga Muslim), Catatan: Mohd Fauzil Adhim, Sumber Grafik: http://bayan.blogmas.com/, Info: Penerbitan & kemaskini semula artikel laman versi 01 oleh aeyie®

Via: http://www.iluvislam.com/keluarga/perkahwinan/1072-saatnya-untuk-menikah.html

Isn, 01 Nov 2010 16:11 | Kausar Cowries | Editor: everjihad

Jodoh:Jangan mencari terlalu sempurna...♥

Jika kamu memancing ikan....Setelah ikan itu terlekat di mata kail, hendaklah kamu mengambil ikan itu....Janganlah sesekali kamu LEPASKAN ia semula ke dalam air begitu saja....Kerana ia akan SAKIT oleh kerana bisanya ketajaman mata kailmu dan mungkin ia akan MENDERITA selagi ia masih hidup.

Begitulah juga .........

Setelah kamu memberi banyak PENGHARAPAN kepada seseorang...Setelah ia mulai MENYAYANGIMU hendaklah kamu MENJAGA hatinya....Janganlah sesekali kamu meninggalkannya begitu saja....Kerana dia akan TERLUKA oleh kenangan bersamamu dan mungkin TIDAK dapat MELUPAKAN segalanya selagi dia mengingatmu. ...

Jika kamu menadah air biarlah berpada, jangan terlalu mengharap pada takungannya dan janganlah menganggap ia begitu teguh.... cukuplah sekadar keperluanmu. ...Apabila sekali ia retak.... tentu sukar untuk kamu menambalnya semula.... Akhirnya ia dibuang....

Sedangkan jika kamu cuba memperbaikinya mungkin ia masih dapat dipergunakan lagi....Begitu juga jika kamu memiliki seseorang, TERIMALAH seadanya....Janganlah kamu terlalu mengaguminya dan janganlah kamu menganggapnya begitu istimewa....Anggaplah dia manusia biasa. Apabila sekali dia melakukan KESILAPAN bukan mudah bagi kamu untuk menerimanya.... akhirnya kamu KECEWA dan meninggalkannya.

Sedangkan jika kamu MEMAAFKANNYA boleh jadi hubungan kamu akan TERUS hingga ke akhirnya....Jika kamu telah memiliki sepinggan nasi... yang kamu pasti baik untuk dirimu. Mengenyangkan. Berkhasiat.Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba mencari makanan yang lain..Terlalu ingin mengejar kelazatan.Kelak, nasi itu akan basi dan kamu tidak boleh memakannya. Kamu akan menyesal.

Begitu juga jika kamu telah bertemu dengan seorang insan..... yang pasti membawa KEBAIKAN kepada dirimu. MENYAYANGIMU. ..MENGASIHIMU. ..Mengapa kamu berlengah, cuba MEMBANDINGKANNYA dengan yang lain.

Terlalu mengejar kesempurnaan.Kelak, kamu akan KEHILANGANNYA apabila dia menjadi milik orang lain... Kamu juga yang akan MENYESAL.....

by Irara Dira on Sunday, October 31, 2010 at 1:14pm.

Model Hijrah Songsang? I don't think so!

Faizal Tahir.

The very name that made the malaysian music scene went absolute haywire. To those who have never heard about this particular person, let me introduced a little bit about him. He is someone who have the passion for music especially Rock music. He was a former member of a nasyid group called MIRWANA. Yes, he is from a nasyid group. BUT, technically he was not originally a nasyid singer. He so-called help those Mirwana guys since they were like room/housemates when they were studying in UiTM.For the sake of Ukhuwwah and brotherhood,he helped his mates.

But in 2006, he made a decision to 'leave' the group and went on pursuing his dream in making big as 'rockstar' and he joined a reality tv shows called One In A Million.So,What actually little naughty things he did until he was labelled as 'Model Hijrah songsang?'

Well, personally [this is a sincere thought. Dont make it a big fuss coz im ONE of his fans] everybody is not PERFECT. Nobody is PERFECT.We as a human being is full of short-comings and the unperfect character.So, we tend to do things that actually unintentional. Unintentional indeed.So back to the question, what sorts of naughty things that he did?He actually took off his shirt in front of the crowds!

Him during 8tv's 4th anniversary.

Tom welling in Smallville as Clark Kent.

The 'event' of him taking off his shirt caused a big stir in the malaysian music industry. Because of this incident he was banned from appearing in any tv shows or tv programmes. And he was required to do community work for three months [izzit?] Hmm..yes that was it.

So for me, to labeled him as 'model hijrah songsang' is a bit extreme. As years pass by, we can named certain artises that actually changed thoroughly. The female artises who do not cover their aurat especially the hair are now seen with a new image. They now appeared wearing hijaab as it is long instructed by ALLAH and seen as an obligation to our deen. But the questions that still lingers in my mind, if these kind of people [if] they had totally leave the hedonistic world and moved to more spiritual world, why is it that they are still active in singing..acting and even hosting? If you made the choice of leaving it than why are you still clinging onto it? Don't tell its the only way for you to support your family. Please read the first hadith of Nawawi's 40 hadith. Innama A'malu binniyyat! Intention are not subjected to made what is wrong to be permissable. And those other artises [not mentioning names] mainly females. Look at their clothes! Some stuff that are not supposed to be revealed are sometimes revealed for the sake of fashion. Then why is it i've never heard of any female artises that wore skimpy outfit that revealed almost everything had to be banned from making an appearence in tv programmes and are required to do community works?

Double standard. That is the only think i could think right now. Back at FT, why is it people still making such a big fuss regarding this issues? For heaven sakes, he already rectified his mistakes and what more do you want him to do? I mean he just took off his shirt not his pants! Maybe this kind of an act may trigger the sensitivity of the malay community. But female artises wearing such figure tight clothes would be okay lah as long as they dont revealed the asset kot??

Thank God he was laidback with the problems and anwered to every question with modesty to proof that he is educated.

To make things clear, this entry is written due to my personal thoughts. I may be his Fan, but this entry,[may look like im backing him] is nothing. JUST a thought that lingers in my mind.

And i decided to post it

.

He is talented. So please appreciate his talent and his love for musics.

P/s: Sorry if i had to post in english coz i juz found out that i had a follower who seems having trouble in Malay. He may understand a bit lah but mostly cannot since im not using standard malay like in kamus but used every day Malay usage. =)

SPECIALIST IN MANY WAYS: THE KOALA

chumel kan?

Animals have various miraculous features and each one of them is a miracle of creation. One of these animals is the koala. The koala feeding on eucalyptus leaves has various splendid features that ensure a comfortable life for it on trees.

The bodily design of the koala, a native of Australia, has flawless details that it needs in the kind of environment it lives. For instance, its limbs and claws ensure an easy climb to eucalyptus tress with wide trunks. The two fingers in its forepaws are separate from its other three fingers. When compared with the human hand, it can be said that the koala has two thumbs. These thumbs, which are quite different from other fingers, allows the koala to grip more securely.

Four of the limbs of the koala, with its claws that can stick into the soft and smooth trunks of trees like a hook, grasp tree branches with ease as if we grasp a stick, and render a comfortable climb for the koala. However, the features, of the koala, are not limited to these. Here are some of them:

A Miniature Bio-chemical Plant

Eucalyptus leaves have a very high fiber and low protein content. These leaves are rich in strong odorous oil, phenolic combinations and materials similar to cyanide that are inedible and even poisonous for many mammals. These materials, which are poisonous for other animals, lose their poisonous effect when it comes to the koala’s body, for the koala is equipped with a digestive system having a very special anatomy and physiology.

Just as in the case of other herbivorous mammals, the koala cannot digest cellulose, the major component of eucalyptus. However, this task is accomplished by cellulose-digesting microorganisms in the cecum of the koala.

The koala’s cecum, which is quite long, opens to large intestine. Indeed, the cecum makes up 20% of the total intestine. Its length is 1.3m long. (Hume, I. D. (1999). Marsupial nutrition. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press)

The cecum is the most interesting part of the koala’s digestive system. The access of the leaves to the digestive system is delayed right at this point. Thanks to this delay, the microorganisms in the cecum transform the cellulose into a structure from which the koala can benefit. With this structure, the koala’s cecum can be likened to a bio-chemical plant. While cellulose is being treated in this plant, oil and phenolic combinations, which are poisonous chemicals, are rendered ineffective in the liver.

As is known, the unique food of the koala is eucalyptus leaves. This means, the animal meets its carbohydrate requirements entirely by cellulose digested by microorganisms. In the absence of microorganisms, it is obvious that the koala cannot survive. The One Who creates these two creatures in perfect harmony is the All-Mighty Allah.

Allah is aware of all the needs of the living-beings. He creates them perfectly. Such examples prove Allah’s infinite power to us. In one of the verses in the Qur’an, Allah relates that those who can use their intellect can understand this fact:

He said, “The Lord of the East and the West and everything between them if you used your intellect.” (Surat ash-Shu‘ara’: 28)

The Koala and the Balance of Water

In the language of Aborigines, the Australian natives, the word “koala” means “the one who does not drink water.” Indeed, the koala does not drink water, for it feeds entirely on eucalyptus leaves.

The eucalyptus leaves has a water content of around 40% to 65%. This ratio never drops below 40%. Because plants with less than 40% water content dry up and die. Thanks to this feature, eucalyptus leaves provide the necessary amount of water to the koala.

No doubt, this feature of the leaves is not sufficient alone. The koala’s body structure utilizing the water in the eucalyptus leaves is extremely important.

The system in the kidneys that checks water loss of the koala’s body has a flawless design. Yet, what is more important is the fact that the digestive system of the koala has the feature of holding water. This way, only a small amount of the water is thrown out from the koala’s body.

Thanks to the kind of digestive system that can hold water, the koala can rely on excess amounts of leaves that do not contain high amounts of water. If the digestive system of the koala lacked this feature, then the animal had to be down on earth, being in a constant search for water.
This means, the animal, which lacks proper features to survive anywhere except for trees, had to face many threats. However, thanks to its special bodily structure, the koala never meets such difficulties.

The Koala’s Protective Fur

The main factor that determines the koala’s body temperature is its fur. The fur is created in a way to ensure perfect heat insulation:

The intensity of feathers in the fur may reach around 55 feathers per square millimeter. The fur in the back of the animal covers 77% of the body surface. The feathers on the stomach, on the other hand, are only half as intensive as the back fur, and it covers only 13% of the body surface.

The length of feathers changes from season to season. In summertime, the difference between long feathers and short ones become even more.

The thick fur on the back is darker than the loose ones on the stomach; this way, the koala collects and insulates the sun’s heat. Despite the loose stomach feathers, the koala can adjust the grade of insulation by steepening them.

On windy days, the koalas on trees give only their middle-backs against the wind, and they curl-up into the shape of a ball. As the intensity of the wind increases, they bend their ears forward. This way, none of their limbs becomes vulnerable to the air stream. The back fur of the koala has the highest grade of insulation. It’s insulation is very close to the grade of insulation of the animals living in the Northern Pole.

The wind has only a weak effect upon this strong fur on the back of the animal. Under heavy wind, the fur can maintain a constant body temperature. Indeed, even on very cold days and under heavy winds, the fur’s heat protection capacity drops only by 14%. Such data indicates that for an animal living on the top branches of trees in forests, they are ensured a perfect protection against cold.

The koala’s metabolism rate is also regulated in a way to complement the heat insulation of the fur. The metabolism of the koala is quite slow; it is only 74% of other animals’ metabolism rate. With such a slow rate, the animal also has a low water loss.

The Koala is a Great Deadlock for Evolutionists…

Let’s remember the features of the koala:

- The koala has a body structure that helps it to easily climb trees and live a comfortable life there.

- Thanks to the special design of its digestive system, the koala can get enough food and water from the eucalyptus leaves they find in ample amounts.

- It has a physiological system that eliminates the poisonous effects of eucalyptus oils.

- It has a metabolism that ensures maximum use of water taken from leaves.

All of these features are required for the survival of an animal such as the koala that lives on trees. Could it be that these features, which are essential for the survival of the koala, have come into existence by chance, as evolutionists assert?

A man of wisdom, who is able to think without prejudice and objectively, has only one answer to this question.

No. It is the All-Mighty Allah Who has created the koala with its flawless features. Allah reveals His infinite compassion and mercy through these features He grants to all living beings. Our Lord informs us about the miracles He creates in living beings as follows:

And in your creation and all the creatures He has spread about there are Signs for people with certainty. (Surat al-Jathiyya: 4)

Sumber: http:// www.harunyahya.net

A regret that may never may be erased.

Regrets are the so-called twins of History. When these two occurs in our lives, nothing will be erased. History gives you names,places,dates,locations and monuments while regret leaves you with haunting memories that may never end.

Sebagai manusia,kite sering buat kesilapan. Kesilapan dimana dari awal lagi kita sudah maklum yang ia adalah saaaaalah! Tapi kite buat jugak. Kenapa? Sebab ape? My opinion says kita lemah. Kita ikut nafsu. Even in bulan ramadhan yang mulia ni pun kite bole tersasar. Many people said that we would never be astray even we are in Ramadhan due all satans are locked up. But most of us went astray and stay completely sinned. Let me tell you something. Satan have the ability to guide you to the bad stuff but he does not have the power to command you to do so. So,its all up to us wether to obey HIM or disobey HIM lah...kan? Ni sumer soal hati dan niat. Dan yang paling penting hati lah kan? Sudah teguh berpaksikan iman dan taqwa ke belum.

Allah is the most sovereign. HE loves his servant sehigga ALLAH pernah berfirman "RahmatKU mengatasi kemarahanKU" If he would to give you reminder, he'll do it in the most miraculous ways. In surah Al-Israa' ALLAH said "Walaa taqrabu zina. Innahu kana fahishatan wa sa'an sabilaa" [Janganlah kamu mendekati zina.Sesungguhnya zina itu adalah satu perbuatan yang keji.Dan suatu jalan yang buruk.] We might have read..memorised and re-read and re-memorised that PARTICULAR ayat la..But still buat kan? [Includes me. Klw tak terjerumus pun ade lah main aci dekat-dekat] Kite pejam sebelah mata. Kite buat dunno. Buat-buat aci tak endah. Sebenarnye kite faham.Bukannyer tak faham. Cume kite tak nak terima hakikat. [Hahahaha..btol ke tamau terime hakikat? Aku asal bole taram jer!]

Tapi what if klw kite dah buat perkara2 yang hampir2 dengan [ehem] zina tu?
Ape nak buat? Sedih kan? Dah terlanjur..takkan nak reverse mase balik kot?
Tapi kite lupe...ALLAH is the most merciful. If you have perform taubat nasuhaa with an addition that you will never returned back to the sinful stuff you've done before,InsyaALLAH your taubat will be accepted. Verily that ALLAH is the all forgiver and accept his servant
repentance!

Ngapain ya mau berpacaran?

Yeap...the well-known topic that have been discussed by teenagers over and over again. Couple..Bercinta sebelum berkahwin..sudah jelas bukan bahawa hukumnya HARAM. Tapi kenapa ya masih lagi berdegil dan mahu berpacaran.

Petang tadi, saya seperti biasa, bloghopping from one blog to another blog and i've encountered an interesting blog entry regarding "Coupling among teenagers nowdays". Well, it was conference in a chatroom later converted into a blog entry by the author. Saya tertarik bagaimana seseorang di situ [tidak tahu sama ada saudara mahupun saudari], lontaran kata-katanya cukup bernas dan bersahaja. Mengunakan etika lojik untuk buat otak kita berfikir dan muhasabah diri.

[Ehem, izin kan saya menukar perbualan anda menjadi satu perenggan ya?]

Kebanyakkan remaja mahupun yang dewasa tidak suka apabila kita me 'label' couple itu HARAM. Tapi..ya kita bole 'channel' fikiran sedemikian ke 'channel' lain.

Contoh: Apa ya sebenarnya definasi "Couple" itu sendiri? Ada yang akan menjawab : Pasangan. Maka apakah cause/hukum/result bagi couple itu sendiri? Okay..pasti ada yang menjawab : wala taqrabu zina. (Ayat 32 surah Al-Israa')

Dan si saudara/saudari itu bertanya lagi bagaimana klw X TAQRAB?(x dekatkan) Maka hukumnya menjadi apa ya? Confuse? pada mulanya saya juga confuse..namun sahabat kita ade menerangkan dengan mengunakan lojik.

Bayangkan ya..anda semua mempunyai sahabat. Ya seorang sahabat. Kamu sayang akan sahabat kamu ini tetapi sahabatmu ini pula bukan dari jenis yang, ehem..ehem..baik-baik ya? Dia menceritakan tentang keaiban kamu..tentang yang tak baik mengenai kamu. Apa ya perasaan anda semua? Sedih? Sakit hati? Menangis? Sudah tentu bukan? Namun tiba-tiba, dia ingin meminjam wang dari kamu..apa kamu akan meminjamkan kepadanya setelah segala bagai cerita kamu dia sudah jaja kesana-kemari? Beri atau tidak? Klw anda beri..anda memang seorang sahbat yang baik..namun apa pula jika ada yang tidak memberi? Rasa-rasa siapa pula yang akan memberi bahagia kepadanya?(yg menzalimi saudaranya) Sudah tentu ALLAH SWT bukan?

Dari kejadian ini..pernah tak tertembus dek tempurung otak kita yang maha keras itu tentang pekara ini? Dimana kita sebagai hambanya yang sentiasa bergelumang dengan dosa selalu inginkan kebahagiaan dan ksenangan. Apa kita tidak 'malu' untuk meminta setelah kita melanggar perintahnya? Anda rasa, adakah ALLAH akan memberi kebahagiaan sedangkan pada permulaanya kita sudah terang-terangan bersalah?? Begitulah saudara kita mengaitkan cerita tentang orang yang dizalimi ingin menolong orang yang telah membuat jahat kepadanya. Ini hanya lojik. Ya..jika ALLAH..dia mampu untuk memberi kebahagiaan ataupun tidak.

Sudah jelas bukan sekarang bahwa ber'couple' itu haram. Dan sudah berkali-kali kita membaca, mengulangi dan mengahafal ayat tersebut. Apa kita hanya sekadar membaca sepintas lalu tanpa mengendahkan maknanya??

Kemudian, saya bertanya kepada diri sendiri, dimanakah nanti barakah dan redha ALLAH jika hubungan yang selama ini tidak halal kemudian halal? [setelah ijab dan kabul]..ini kerana saya terkesan dengan kata-kata saudara/saudari tersebut : if you want to build a family, a faithful one, you can never build it on what Allah has stated as wrong and proven false by the way Rasulullah p.b.u.h has taught us. A happy and blessed family come from Allah, and you don't even have anything to defend it as blessed if the first step you make is by stepping into what He has prohibited. You can't have a happy family if Allah doesn't help you so, and you must know in every family that stands until their dying day, they have Allah on their side. You can't expect Him to help you if you did the wrong step from the very beginning.

Owh..mungkin sesetengah mengatakan dengan lantang.."Couple islamik. Tidak akan ade bersentuhan tangan atau bermesraan" Benarkah ada sebegitu?? Ouh..dalil mana yag dikutipnya?? Hehehehe..

Ya..saya pernah ditanya oleh seorang sahabat. " Ngapain ya mau berpacaran??"

Waktu itu..saya tersentak dengan soalannya. Sungguh tersentak! Otak saya ligat berfikir mencari maklumat. Namun sia-sia saja dan saya terpaksa akur. Tiada satu nas..hadith mahupun ayat al-quran mengatakan bahawa couple itu HALAL. Saya akui ilmu saya cetek. Walaupun pada waktu itu saya tahu bahawa couple itu sebenarnya haram namun saya tetap ingin berhujjah. Owh..apa yang saya katakan? Benar couple itu haram..dan ya saya mula merapu yang bukan-bukan. Si Dia hanya tersenyum.

Kepada si Dia yang sentiasa tersenyum,

Terima kasih ya kerana terus ingin bersahabat dengan saya tanpa mengingini sesuatu yang lebih dari sahabat. Hehehehe..malunya saya! Owh..Alhamdulillah kerana tidak pernah terjebak dalam mana-mana hubugan yang tidak diredhai oleh ALLAH SWT.
kita akan terus bersahabat ya? Mesyi? =)


[Sekadar renungan bersama. Sekadar memberi peringatan kepada semua termasuk diri saya sekali. Tak berniat untuk menghentam sesiapa tetapi sekadar berkongsi.]